The Joys of Parenthood and the “Give Me” Society

I love to watch the baby birds and other creatures around my home that have outgrown the “nest” but can’t leave the family yet.

I feed my birds year-round … (and the squirrels, opossums, bunnies, raccoons, ducks, deer, etc., because we throw out the table scraps from our salad peelings, too.)

When we go to BJ’s Warehouse (think Cosco in other areas) and buy bags of unsalted peanuts, we are asked about the purchase. Yes, we feed all those that come to the feeders. We buy our seeds at the local feed mill.

But I love it when the babies, who are as big as the parent, come along with the parent to the feeders. They flutter and squawk at them until the parent finally pops a seed into the screaming kid’s mouth (beak, whatever!)

They’re old enough to feed themselves – but don’t.

Despite being capable of self-sufficiency, they seem to cherish the extra care, much like some adult children who still live at home, occasionally accompanied by their own children and pets.

Why is that?

Jobs don’t pay enough to live on. I remember working several jobs to make rent and utilities. Even with a college degree, many can’t make ends meet.

Prices are out of control, the economy is out of whack, and some people are lazy. I’ve seen them. They buy inappropriate foods for their family, they don’t exercise, and they ignore the signs that they have got to get up off their butts and work hard. It’s a “Give Me Society.”

But that is not everyone. Some work hard and are hardly making it.

So what is the alternative? I’m not sure.

I continue to work – digitally optimizing websites, writing my news for this newsletter, posting on social media, and editing and posting videos. I am not a sage with lots of wisdom to spew around.

I can tell you complacency gives you hemroids. I can also tell you that doing nothing or waiting for your parents or someone else (the Government) to give you money to live on is NOT the answer.

I believe in hard work. Punching a clock or whatever your job requires is important. Being on time, paying your dues, being honest in commerce, and having integrity make a good person worth hiring and keeping employed.

Is that you? I hope so.

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Understanding the Role of Wildlife in Our Gardens

Feeding birds and other wildlife offers more than just a chance to enjoy nature; it plays a crucial role in maintaining local ecosystems. By supplying food year-round, we help support various species that might struggle to find adequate nourishment, especially during winter months or in urban environments. Just like people, wildlife appreciates a steady source of food, which often leads to more frequent visits to your garden, creating a vibrant atmosphere filled with life.

Moreover, having wildlife in your garden can help with pest control and pollination. Birds, for instance, can control insect populations, while bees and butterflies are essential for pollinating flowering plants. This natural balance not only enhances the beauty of your garden but also makes it a sustainable space that contributes positively to your local environment.

Challenges of Modern Living and Its Impact on Health

The complexities of contemporary life can take a toll on both physical and mental health. Many people find themselves overwhelmed by financial pressures and the fast-paced nature of daily living, leading to a decline in both exercise and healthy eating habits. This situation is exacerbated by the rising cost of living, compelling some to opt for convenience over nutrition, which can ultimately harm their well-being.

Additionally, the tendency to prioritize work over personal care can negatively impact the ability to cultivate a healthy lifestyle. Many adults may find themselves engrossed in their jobs, neglecting activities that promote physical health or mental balance, such as exercise or family time. Addressing these issues involves not just individual effort, but also a societal shift towards valuing well-being and work-life balance.

Maintaining Integrity in Professional Life

In today's competitive job market, integrity is a trait that can set individuals apart. Building a trustworthy reputation is essential for long-term success, as it fosters relationships with clients and colleagues founded on respect and reliability. Being honest in commerce not only helps in personal development but also contributes positively to the entire industry.

Moreover, integrating values such as punctuality, transparency, and accountability into daily work habits can create a constructive and ethical work environment. By committing to these principles, individuals not only enhance their prospects for career advancement but also inspire others to uphold similar standards, ultimately raising the bar for professionalism in their field.